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What if it Ends with a Fluffy Frittata? š„
Detours, divine accidents, and unexpected fry-ups.

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EDITION 17
All week, Iāve been thinking about detours.
About the muddles and puddles, the wrong turnsāhow wild it is that the moments we superlative in strings as setbacks or find ourselves stumbling across thorn-filled sidewalks turn out, time (and time) again, to be these crazy curious little gifts. Not obstacles, but doors to spaces we didn't even know existed. Or ever planned on enteringā¦
I mean, seriously, who could dream up half the places we end up? The gravel roads, the slippery streets with no name, the times weāre convinced we've missed the sign⦠only to discover, looking back, that those were the routes we were meant to take all along.
Maybe we were never meant to open up our eyes and see the sign..? Nudge. Wink.
Maybe the point is to trust our feet, to keep forging forward even when the map lines are smudged over and the road doubles back on itself.
I knowāthe tricky part.
Youāre asking, But, Shanna, how do we keep moving forward when the frittata seems so far from fluffy?
(Even if the universe, somewhere just beyond the bend, has a whole pan of fluffiness waiting for us. Vegan friendsāsubstitute your preferred non-egg egg here.)
Maybe, just maybe, John⦠the what-ifās and why-nowāsāand yes, sometimes the wtf'sāare actually the real magic in disguise, working out something well beyond our planning. Maybe those out-the-who detours are where the real wildnessāand the real āusāāis found, once we all get aboard the nighttrain.
And really, if we knew all the poop weād have to dig through to find the pony (yes, itās the pony again), would we really do it all? I argue not, Eileen.
Maybe the journey doesnāt need us to know or have all the answers, but to stay curious. And to keep digging⦠Even ifāwe don't know the way, or even see any bottom⦠yet. Because maybe what feels off course and deep in doo-doo is actually the universe steering us toward a kind of magic we couldnāt have planned for. That includes the oddball surprises, like fluffy frittatas. Who knew?!
So this week, hereās to trusting the crooked paths, the U-turns, and the divine accidents are bringing us, crumb by crumb by fluffy crumb, to the feast of fluffy frittatas we didn't know we needed.
Thatās all for now.
Until next week!
Always light,

Shanna "steering somewhere fluffy" Lindinger
P.S. Got a story of a stumble that turned out to be a secret sunbeam blessing? Hit reply. Iād love to hear about those snack breaks along the road.
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ā¶ Current Thinking Spot: The Dining Room Table
ā¶ Poem of the Week: The Journey by Mary Oliver
ā¶ Song of the Week: Dunya Salam by Baaba Maal
ā¶ Writing setup: MacBook Pro + simple notebook and pen
I am not lost, for I know that wherever I go, I shall find adventure and unexpected beauty.
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